Becoming the Partner You Most Want to Be

Identify the point (l) that best rates your current state as a husband/wife/intimate partner:



COMPASSIONATE        l       l       l       l       l       RESENTFUL

 

Describe what you will do to move one notch closer to becoming the compassionate partner you most want to be (for example, sympathize with his or her vulnerability, care when he/she feels bad):

Note: You cannot change simply to manipulate your partner, as that will certainly get a negative response. You want to be compassionate because that is who you really are.

 

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Dr. Stosny offers telephone consultation on how to be the best partner you can be, according to your own values. If you would like an appointment, write down your answer to the above to discuss it with him. You can arrange for the appointment at: Phone