Becoming the Partner You Most Want to Be

Identify the point (l) that best rates your current state as a husband/wife/intimate partner:



LOVING        l       l       l       l       l       CONTEMPTUOUS

 

Describe what you will do to move one notch closer to becoming the loving partner you most want to be (for example, speak more warmly, focus more on partner's positive contributions, be more caring in general):

Note: You cannot change simply to manipulate your partner, as that will certainly get a negative response. You want to be loving because that is who you really are.

 

 

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Dr. Stosny offers telephone consultation on how to be the best partner you can be, according to your own values. If you would like an appointment, write down your answer to the above to discuss it with him. You can arrange for the appointment at: Phone